我有个同事,当初来华为就完全没跟另一半商量,老公压根不知道她来华为面试。她拿到offer也只是淡淡地和老公说一声,根本没有和老公商量,就直接自行决定辞职来华为了。
觉得这同事挺有主见的,凡事自己就拿主意了,老公也挺顺着她的
楼主最近工作中闹得不愉快,心生退意,打算开始找新工作。试探着问了问老公:如果我有拿到别的大厂offer,甚至是外企大厂,你同不同意我离开华为。满心以为他会说:宝贝,你爱做什么做什么,我不干涉,只要你开心
想不到他的回答是:跳什么槽啊,华为哪里不好了,公司都差不多,到哪都一样
我不死心,再问了一句:如果,我是说万一,google, facebook, apple这样的大厂给我offer,你也觉得不用去吗?
他说:有什么好去的,你真以为外企好啊
居然有这么不给力的另一半,真是够郁闷的
网上不是说了成功婚姻的第一条就是:)无论配偶想做什么,都要始终支持他们(只要是法律,伦理和道德允许的;-))感觉第一条就fail了
Let me share what I have learnt about making a marriage stronger over time…so far (of course, I am still learning). To have a successful marriage is no different from maintaining a successful career, business, health etc… YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT. You have to use the right strategies. It does not happen by chance. Here are some of our strategies…
1) Always support your spouse in whatever they want to do (as long as it is legal, ethical and moral ;-))